Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Boo Me...Bad Bad Superhero...

Ok, string me up, take away my my blog, and smack my lack of blogging hands. I am the worst blog mommy ever!!! I know I know...But I swear I've had quite a few life altering changes happening in my life...I promise that I will be back to my old blog happy self in no time. So until then, here is a lil taste of what I've been up to...
I'm building a new in home photo studio, because I am moving!!!

Shooting newborns is always on my list!

Here he is with his awesome kids!

I met an amazing guy! So we are building a life/family together!

I had an amazing opportunity to shoot for my oldest brother and his growing family! Photography is a HUGE part of my life!

My photography is taking on new forms and I am loving every second of it!

I also got to spend a few days a week with this sweet lil angel! I am blessed to have the opportunity to babysit while the nephews are infants!

Tattoos have taken place this summer too!!! It was amazing!

An end and a rebirth to a better life!

And of course my life would not be complete without time with my bestie!!!

I'm revamping my branding and taking my art to a whole new place!!!
So as you can see from this small sampling of the tons a things my life has been filled with, I am not jus a lazy blog ignoring bum. I will be blogging a lot more now that I have a stable internet connection and my life is becoming a bit more chill! Stay tuned y'all!

Friday, July 13, 2012

Scars, Flaws, & Reflection...

Personal reflection is a huge part of my personal journey. I take some time each and every day to look back at my life, enjoy the good times and learn from the bad. And unlike some people who choose to reflect, I am not bitter or upset. My life and all the people who have come and gone as well as all the experiences, good and bad have brought me to the place I am now. Sometimes it wasn't easy, but I like who I am, and I love the changes that continue to mold me into a better person. So for all of this I am thankful.  It's made me the person I am. I wouldn't be the me I am now without all the SCARS. So how could I be upset about that? I feel like I own each and every choice I have made. I make no apologies for who I am. Now don't get it twisted...I have an innate ability to apologize when necessary, but I do not and will not apologize for the person you see before you. I am who I am and that is OK!!!

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

God Made Everyone Right-Handed, The Truly Gifted Overcome It!



There have been tons of studies done on hand dominance. Scientists aren’t exactly sure what causes a person to use one hand vs the other, but research points to a complex collaboration between genes and environment. While no exact set of “Lefty Genes” have been discovered, there is a genetic component that determines right versus Left-Hand dominance, and it’s called the LRRTM1 gene. People with this gene are more likely to be lefties. And researchers have found different brain wirings in Righties vs. Lefties.

So, obviously it's no secret that I am left handed. And if it was, well the cat is outta the bag now right?! LOL I am VERY VERY left handed. I can do almost nothing with my right hand alone. It is basically my left hand's bitch. It jus assists my DOMINANT hand with every tasks. It's only job in life is to make my left hand's job easier. Any other lefties feel this way?! My whole life I've found it to be jus a smidge more difficult to do things in a right handed world. There’s no denying it. Left-handers are the odd men out. Sure, lefties make up only 10% of the population — but, frankly, it seems like society has forgotten about them. Right-handed gadgets, awkwardly designed desks, cooking tools that only fit comfortably in your right hand (now that’s just wrong!). Not to mention that there has always been social stigmas and/or myths attached to being a left hand dominant person...aka "Lefty" or "SouthPaw." So all you Lefties, SouthPaw lovin' Righties, and Ambidextrous folks out there...It’s time to brush up on your left-handed knowledge and help put an end to lefty discrimination once and for all!!!

Allow me to elaborate-
People used to think that we as "Lefties" were more likely to have dyslexia as well as other learning disabilities, schizophrenia, and a stutter. Some doctors believed that left-handed people were more likely to struggle with breast cancer, allergies, and asthma or become alcoholics.
But thank God those myths were disproved. It seems though that some personality traits among left-handed people hold true.

-The speech centers of right-handers and most left-handers are in the left brain. The left brain focuses on syntax and order, while the right brain monitors context and emotions.

Lefty Personality Traits:
  • Leadership. About 66% of American presidents in the last 30 years were left-handed men. Bill Clinton, George H.W. Bush, Ronald Reagan, and Gerald Fold were all left-handed presidents. Barack Obama and John McCain are both left-handed.
  • Quick thinkers. Studies have shown that lefties are “exceptional.” Australian research shows that left-handed people think more quickly when playing computer games or sports. Left-handed people also tend to earn more money.
  • Sexuality. Research from Canada reveals this interesting quality of left-handed people: they’re more likely to be homosexual
  • Independence: Some experts believe left-handed people are more independent because they’ve had to get along in a world that’s not made for them. Dr Peters says that lefties are “slightly more resistant to social pressures, to have more of an independent streak.”
  • Adaptability: Canadian research shows that left-handed people are more adaptable than right-handed people. That is, a lefty can use her right hand to do tasks much easier than a righty can use his hand. Left-handed people seem to be able to switch over more easily.
Generally, SouthPaws are thought to be more flexible, highly intelligent, and more resilient than right-handed people. We are better at divergent thinking, a method of idea generation that explores many possible solutions. People who use their left hands tend to be more affected by fear than people who use their right hands. Mixed-handed people are more likely to alter their beliefs as they get new information, making them better able to see both sides of the story.
  • Left-handed people can see more easily underwater, and also usually excel in sports such as swimming, fencing and tennis.
  • Pioneers in our society are often left-handed, including four out of five designers of the original Macintosh, one of four Apollo astronauts, and countless leaders from Ronald Reagan to King George IV of England.
  • Left-handed folks have an advantage when it comes to fist fights. Nobody knows exactly why, but perhaps because that first swing from an unexpected hand makes all the difference!
Being left-handed is something to be proud of because it provides you with a unique skill set and traits that most people do not possess.

 Mark your calendar — August 13 is International Left-Hander’s Day.








Friday, June 15, 2012

Waaaaay Back In The Day...Seriously?!



New grads or old school RNs alike...Take a look back at the history of the nursing profession.
I found this list @ carenurse.com It demonstrates the "Day in the Life" of a Nurse day in 1887—before routine charting was even invented. Enjoy!!!

1887 Nursing Job Description:


In addition to caring for your 50 patients, each bedside nurse will follow these regulations:

1. Daily sweep and mop the floors of your ward, dust the patient’s furniture and window sills.

 2. Maintain an even temperature in your ward by bringing in a scuttle of coal for the day’s business.

3. Light is important to observe the patient’s condition. Therefore, each day fill kerosene lamps, clean chimneys and trim wicks.

4. The nurse's notes are important in aiding your physician’s work. Make your pens carefully; you may whittle nibs to your individual taste.

5. Each nurse on day duty will report every day at 7 a.m. and leave at 8 p.m., except on the Sabbath, on which day she will be off from 12 noon to 2 p.m.

6. Graduate nurses in good standing with the director of nurses will be given an evening off each week for courting purposes, or two evenings a week if you go regularly to church.

7. Each nurse should lay aside from each payday a goodly sum of her earnings for her benefits during her declining years, so that she will not become a burden. For example, if you earn $30 a month, you should set aside $15.

8. Any nurse who smokes, uses liquor in any form, gets her hair done at a beauty shop or frequents dance halls will give the director of nurses good reason to suspect her worth, intentions and integrity.

9. The nurse who performs her labors [and] serves her patients and doctors faithfully and without fault for a period of five years will be given an increase by the hospital administration of five cents per day.

Baggage Fees


I am a person that is huge into metaphors and symbolism. They have always helped me in times of crisis. Over the last several years however this big part of how I heal myself has been stifled. But now I am heading back to the person I really am. So recently I was drawn back to the inspiration of  my safe place...metaphors. Allow me to explain...I jus recently ended a very serious long term relationship that was full of life changing situations and emotions. So for the first time in a very long time, I was jus looking to go out and have some fun. But as we all know, life usually has other plans for us. As they say "We plan and God laughs." It is even written in song, "If you wanna hear God laugh, tell him your plans." So, unlike what I had planned for myself, life brought me a new relationship a few months ago. It happened alot faster than I had ever planned...I guess I should have expected it though...All of the most memorable relationships in my life have fallen in my lap when I was NOT on the lookout for them. This time around I decided that I was going to try something new. I did something very uncharacteristic for me. I gave up control (which those of you that know me, know is the hardest thing EVER) and just went with it. I chose to let life just...well...happen. And it has been an AMAZING experience thus far. My new beau and I have a spectacular time together. He enriches my life in ways I never thought anyone could. He and I communicate on a deeper level than most other people I have ever met. One of our first conversations drifted to the fact that I was so fresh out of a long term relationship, and if my heart was ready and open to love again. We talk about the past alot because both he and I have been hurt and in turn have " Emotional Baggage." But I made a very personal choice after my last relationship came to an end. I made a conscious decision to not allow my past to dictate how my future would play out. I think I have done a pretty good job of treating this relationship as a brand new experience, and not bringing my "Emotional Baggage" with me.

And now for the metaphor...I have always been fond of the comparison of all the hurt and pain in your past and the scars it has left as "Emotional Baggage." It makes me think of airports and baggage claim.
I view each new relationship like a new and exciting flight to a brand new destination. Just like any new adventure you want to enjoy it to the fullest, sooo you buy new outfits, and luggage, and plan on seeing and doing things that you have never experienced etc. But unlike an exciting new trip, new relationships can be very scary and can cause us revert back to what is safe and comfortable for us. We in turn bring our "Emotional Baggage" into an otherwise awesome new venture. Doing this often ruins a budding new romance. And that is a very sad byproduct of allowing the scars and pain from the past to creep into your present and your future. It is very hard sometimes to not allow yourself to relive previous negative experiences and punish a new love for old wounds. I refer to this as "Baggage Fees." I don't think most people realize the cost of bringing "Emotional Baggage" with you as you live your life.

I myself am guilty of allowing "Emotional Baggage" at times to change my future and influence my choices. There are so many people that are on the merry go round, or "Baggage Claim Carousel", if you will, for the second third or fourth time. Why do we embark on a new adventure and go back to the baggage claim to retrieve our old luggage when we get scared?! Well, I refuse to be one of those people anymore in my life. New adventures deserve an open mind and a heart that is fully open to all the amazing possibilities. Though my heart has been broken before, and has visible scars, it is an awesomely resilient part of me. I have left my "Emotional Baggage" at the airport, and I'm plunging into my future without it...Someone else can claim it, cuz I'm done with it!!!