Friday, July 13, 2012

Scars, Flaws, & Reflection...

Personal reflection is a huge part of my personal journey. I take some time each and every day to look back at my life, enjoy the good times and learn from the bad. And unlike some people who choose to reflect, I am not bitter or upset. My life and all the people who have come and gone as well as all the experiences, good and bad have brought me to the place I am now. Sometimes it wasn't easy, but I like who I am, and I love the changes that continue to mold me into a better person. So for all of this I am thankful.  It's made me the person I am. I wouldn't be the me I am now without all the SCARS. So how could I be upset about that? I feel like I own each and every choice I have made. I make no apologies for who I am. Now don't get it twisted...I have an innate ability to apologize when necessary, but I do not and will not apologize for the person you see before you. I am who I am and that is OK!!!

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

God Made Everyone Right-Handed, The Truly Gifted Overcome It!



There have been tons of studies done on hand dominance. Scientists aren’t exactly sure what causes a person to use one hand vs the other, but research points to a complex collaboration between genes and environment. While no exact set of “Lefty Genes” have been discovered, there is a genetic component that determines right versus Left-Hand dominance, and it’s called the LRRTM1 gene. People with this gene are more likely to be lefties. And researchers have found different brain wirings in Righties vs. Lefties.

So, obviously it's no secret that I am left handed. And if it was, well the cat is outta the bag now right?! LOL I am VERY VERY left handed. I can do almost nothing with my right hand alone. It is basically my left hand's bitch. It jus assists my DOMINANT hand with every tasks. It's only job in life is to make my left hand's job easier. Any other lefties feel this way?! My whole life I've found it to be jus a smidge more difficult to do things in a right handed world. There’s no denying it. Left-handers are the odd men out. Sure, lefties make up only 10% of the population — but, frankly, it seems like society has forgotten about them. Right-handed gadgets, awkwardly designed desks, cooking tools that only fit comfortably in your right hand (now that’s just wrong!). Not to mention that there has always been social stigmas and/or myths attached to being a left hand dominant person...aka "Lefty" or "SouthPaw." So all you Lefties, SouthPaw lovin' Righties, and Ambidextrous folks out there...It’s time to brush up on your left-handed knowledge and help put an end to lefty discrimination once and for all!!!

Allow me to elaborate-
People used to think that we as "Lefties" were more likely to have dyslexia as well as other learning disabilities, schizophrenia, and a stutter. Some doctors believed that left-handed people were more likely to struggle with breast cancer, allergies, and asthma or become alcoholics.
But thank God those myths were disproved. It seems though that some personality traits among left-handed people hold true.

-The speech centers of right-handers and most left-handers are in the left brain. The left brain focuses on syntax and order, while the right brain monitors context and emotions.

Lefty Personality Traits:
  • Leadership. About 66% of American presidents in the last 30 years were left-handed men. Bill Clinton, George H.W. Bush, Ronald Reagan, and Gerald Fold were all left-handed presidents. Barack Obama and John McCain are both left-handed.
  • Quick thinkers. Studies have shown that lefties are “exceptional.” Australian research shows that left-handed people think more quickly when playing computer games or sports. Left-handed people also tend to earn more money.
  • Sexuality. Research from Canada reveals this interesting quality of left-handed people: they’re more likely to be homosexual
  • Independence: Some experts believe left-handed people are more independent because they’ve had to get along in a world that’s not made for them. Dr Peters says that lefties are “slightly more resistant to social pressures, to have more of an independent streak.”
  • Adaptability: Canadian research shows that left-handed people are more adaptable than right-handed people. That is, a lefty can use her right hand to do tasks much easier than a righty can use his hand. Left-handed people seem to be able to switch over more easily.
Generally, SouthPaws are thought to be more flexible, highly intelligent, and more resilient than right-handed people. We are better at divergent thinking, a method of idea generation that explores many possible solutions. People who use their left hands tend to be more affected by fear than people who use their right hands. Mixed-handed people are more likely to alter their beliefs as they get new information, making them better able to see both sides of the story.
  • Left-handed people can see more easily underwater, and also usually excel in sports such as swimming, fencing and tennis.
  • Pioneers in our society are often left-handed, including four out of five designers of the original Macintosh, one of four Apollo astronauts, and countless leaders from Ronald Reagan to King George IV of England.
  • Left-handed folks have an advantage when it comes to fist fights. Nobody knows exactly why, but perhaps because that first swing from an unexpected hand makes all the difference!
Being left-handed is something to be proud of because it provides you with a unique skill set and traits that most people do not possess.

 Mark your calendar — August 13 is International Left-Hander’s Day.