Sunday, November 6, 2011

50 Things I Want To Do Before I Die:

 1. Take more time to stop and smell the roses-For myself.
2. Learn to paint.
3. Get a useless degree in something just for fun.
4. Meditate...Daily.
5. Learn Yoga.
6. Take a cross country road trip and visit all 50 states.
7. Visit the dead sea...And swim in it!
8. Drive a Formula 1 car.
9. Try and right some of my biggest wrongs...
10. Have a picnic...At midnight!
11. Open a Swiss bank account.
12. Place $10,000 bet on one hand of poker in a Vegas casino.
13. Use my gifts in nursing to help others in a 3rd world country.
14. Set foot on all 7 continents.
15. Live like a local for a month.
16. Visit a real Blues Bar.
17. Visit a real New York coffee/poetry reading house.
18. Learn to surf.
19. Visit an active volcano.
20. Spend 24 hours alone in the jungle.
21. Cross a country using only public transportation. See a country the way most of its people do: from the window of a bus, train, or ferry.
22. Spend the night in a storied/historic/haunted hotel.23. Attend the Summer Olympics.
24. Stand on the North Pole.
25. Visit the birthplace or grave site of a cultural icon.-I'm not sure which one yet...        
26. Enjoy a freshly rolled cigar in Cuba. 27. Write my life story.
28. Blow a month's salary on something completely ridiculous but awesome!-You can't take it with you right?!
29. Do a self portrait.
30. Plant a tree and carve my name in it!
31. Plan a very elaborate practical joke.
32. Spend a week at sea.
33. Skinny dip at midnight.
34. Have a trashy Vegas wedding!
35. Ride a horse in the surf.
36. Sleep outdoors, underneath the stars.
37. Surf and snowboard in the same day.
38. View a house that is at least 3 times what I could ever afford.
39. Research my family tree.
40. Find my 1/2 sister.
41. Get my fortune read.
42. Write letters to everyone I care about-Only to be opened after I'm gone.
43. Spend the day giving money to strangers.-Just to see the smiles on their faces.
44. Live off the land for a month.
45. Walk a marathon.
46. Visit all the places on my bucket list!
47. Test drive a car I could never afford...By a LONG shot!
48. Watch and photograph a lightning storm at sea.
49. Be the member of the audience on a TV show.
50. Shower in a waterfall.

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Yup, It's OK...# 4


Yup, It's OK:
1. To shower with the lights off.
2. To question your path in life without feeling guilty or making any changes.
3. To dance around in your underwear and knee-high socks and sing at the top of your lungs when you are all alone in your house...Or even if you aren't alone!
4. To use ketchup on 95 % on what you are eating!
5. To never ever be your boss' friend on Facebook...Bad idea!                    
6. To use your cell phone as a tool to get away from whatever annoying person is trying to talk to you!-Pretend to text! Works every time!
7. To decide NOT to wear a white wedding dress.
8. To still love Tae-Bo and do it often! Who needs Zumba?!
9. To get totally grossed out when mommies talk about their changing bodies during and after pregnancy...
10. To take a "SICK" day to jus relax and get some extra rest. It's for your own sanity right?!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Photography Is NOT A CRIME!

I love the art of photography. It has really enriched my life in sooo many ways! I am blessed to have a vision and a passion that I am able to share with the world. Photography has given me a unique voice and allows me to express myself, and allows others to see the world as I see it, at least for that moment. But as my art evolves and I branch into different types of photography I have met some resistance. It seems as though if you are not the standard family/portrait/wedding photog you are viewed as a "THREAT." Public or Street Photography has always been an interest of mine. But it seems as though this type of photography is seen as Terrorism. What are these people afraid of? JPG Magazine says it the best~"In a post 9/11 age of paranoia and suspicion, public photography is increasingly seen as threatening, or mistaken as criminal...Amateur photographers are the documentarians of real life. We capture our world to help us understand it. We are not a threat." It is the ones that are trying to censor us that are the real threat. I plan to continue taking photographs of RAW, REAL life as it happens. As I do so, some people may be offended by my artistic point of view, but still I WILL shoot on. And you can be certain of one thing-I am educating myself on the law and my rights so I can start my crusade to bring the truth to the people. So, anyone that is interested-Please continue to follow Crawtography and see the results of all the exciting adventures my new found passion for Street Photography is bringing to my art!                 

 Some Facts That May Interest You:
1. Anyone in a public place can take pictures of anything they want. Public places include parks, sidewalks, malls, etc. Malls? Yeah. Even though it’s technically private property, being open to the public makes it public space.
2. If you are on public property, you can take pictures of private property. If a building, for example, is visible from the sidewalk, it’s fair game.
3. If you are on private property and are asked not to take pictures, you are obligated to honor that request. This includes posted signs.
4. Sensitive government buildings (military bases, nuclear facilities) can prohibit photography if it is deemed a threat to national security.
5. People can be photographed if they are in public (without their consent) unless they have secluded themselves and can expect a reasonable degree of privacy. Kids swimming in a fountain? Okay. Somebody entering their PIN at the ATM? Not okay.
6. The following can almost always be photographed from public places, despite popular opinion:
* accident & fire scenes, criminal activities
* bridges & other infrastructure, transportation facilities (i.e. airports)
* industrial facilities, Superfund sites
* public utilities, residential & commercial buildings
* children, celebrities, law enforcement officers                                               
* UFOs, the Loch Ness Monster, Chuck Norris
7. Although “security” is often given as the reason somebody doesn’t want you to take photos, it’s rarely valid. Taking a photo of a publicly visible subject does not constitute terrorism, nor does it infringe on a company’s trade secrets.
8. If you are challenged, you do not have to explain why you are taking pictures, nor to you have to disclose your identity (except in some cases when questioned by a law enforcement officer.)
9. Private parties have very limited rights to detain you against your will, and can be subject to legal action if they harass you.
10. If someone tries to confiscate your camera and/or film, you don’t have to give it to them. If they take it by force or threaten you, they can be liable for things like theft and coercion. Even law enforcement officers need a court order.

What To Do If You’re Confronted while photographing:
-Be respectful and polite. Use good judgement and don’t escalate the situation.
-If the person becomes combative or difficult, think about calling the police.
-Threats, detention, and taking your camera are all grounds for legal or civil actions on your part. -Be sure to get the person’s name, employer, and what legal grounds they claim for their actions.
-If you don’t want to involve the authorities, go above the person’s head to their supervisor or their company’s public relations department.
-Call your local TV and radio stations and see if they want to do a story about your civil liberties.
-Put the story on the web yourself if need be.


Sunday, October 30, 2011

25 Things You Probably Don't Know About Me...

 1. I shower in the dark...Every day!

2. Peanut butter and Oreos are my comfort food.            

3. I was a swimmer in HS!-Well you prolly knew that...But I am afraid of the water, Not pool water, but water where you can't see the bottom ie lakes, rivers, the ocean!-LOL

4. I should have majored in English in college. Apparently I'm gifted in that area (Says a very important test) but I dislike it very much.

5. I almost quit nursing school my freshman year!-Thank God I didn't!

6. Sometimes, when I am really stressed out, I like to sit in my walk-in closet...In the dark.      

7. I have curly hair!-Ok you knew that too...But I hid it until I was a junior in HS and I have no idea why!-LOL

8. I have been afraid of the Halloween movies since I was six...But every time they are on TV or a new one comes out, I HAVE to watch it.

9. I have multiple tattoos!-Alot of people don't know that about me cuz I hide them...for no apparent reason...Other than I can!!!-LOL

10. I have a 1/2 sister somewhere out there in the world, that I have never met...

11. I've never been arrested. But one time a cop put in me handcuffs to scare me!-And oh man did it ever!!!

12. I am scared  to death of going to jail! Not that I ever break the law (At least not a law big enough to warrant jail time), but jus the thought or threat of being hauled in to the BIG HOUSE makes me want to be a law abiding citizen and never ever break ANY laws...EVER!

13. I'm spoiled in my relationship. I expect to get tucked in every time I go to sleep...And sometimes for fun I get un-tucked jus so I can get tucked in again!                        

14. I am OBSESSED w/ gangsta culture...ie Gangs, The Hood, Rap Music etc.

15. I had braces in HS...Obviously right?! Well I loved every minute they were on my teeth and I was very sad to see them go!

16. I absolutely LOVE babies/kids. Although I am undecided whether I want to have any of my own.
  
17. I dream of the day I can go back to college and get a degree in something totally useless...Just for fun!

18. I love to eat, but hate to cook.

19. I have always thought I could share my nursing skills by helping others in a 3rd world country.

20. I am slightly obsessed with ducks, and anything with stripes!!!

21. I have a big red mark on the back of my right arm. It looks like a giant bruise. People never believe me when I tell them it's a burn scar from when I was 2.

22. I'm a secret gear head. I LOVE cars!!!-I could totally become a mechanic!

23. I will knock you down in order to get home to watch One Tree Hill!!!

24. I'm a major BITCH when I'm tired.

25. I worry about money all the time...Even when I have plenty of it. So, because of this irrational worry, I MUST always put at least one thing back before I check out at the store... 

Monday, October 10, 2011

Sometimes You Jus' Gotta Suck The Poison Out...

The last few months have brought many life altering experiences for me. I have felt emotions from both ends of the spectrum and everything in between. So there are certain times throughout each day that I reflect on the things that have happened in my life and how I am a changed person because of it all. And as I mull over how my life and the lives of all of us are changed by our past experiences I start to realize how others in your life can change your path and psyche. Whether the effect is good or bad. It is inevitable that the words and actions of others can have a profound effect on not only our lives but the way we see the world and ourselves in it. I have a bad habit of allowing my mood and choices to be affected by others. And after all the drama over the last few weeks I am just now starting to step back and reflect on the people around me and my reaction to their words and actions. There are people in my life that are a very calming and positive influence and they enhance my life. These are the people that I must cherish and nurture my relationships with. But then of course I end up thinking about all the people that have had a negative influence on me.
As I think about all the negativity that certain people have brought into my life I am sad. Last night I started exploring all the toxic people that I have surrounded myself with lately and came to this conclusion-"Well of course you feel this way when you allow those negative people to influence your mind and your life decisions!!!"  After my "breakthrough" I was drawn to a bit of old school first aid. In any first aid class that includes wilderness training you are given poisonous snake info. If someone was ever bitten by a snake we were taught to suck the poison out. And I thought to myself how appropriate that little piece of advice really is. I think it applies here too. When you surround yourself with "SNAKES" eventually you will get bitten. The events of the last month have proven that "SNAKES" are everywhere and you must protect yourself. So as of today I am ridding my life of all of them. And in order to heal and move forward on my journey toward inner peace and happiness I GOTTA SUCK THE POISON OUT! And that is exactly what I have been doing. Metaphorically I have been sucking all the "POISON" out of my life. It has been a very cleansing and amazing experience. I am no longer allowing toxic people to have any affect on my life or have a forum to derail me from what I am trying to accomplish. And to anyone that has not figured out who the "SNAKES" are in your life, BEWARE!!!
 They are not always obviously "poisonous." The worst "SNAKES" in my life were the ones that snuck up on me. They were in the form of people that I thought cared about me and had my best interest in mind. But it turns out, they were the worst kind of people...They pretended to care in order to gain my trust, and then when I was vulnerable...They struck...
And "bit" me, multiple times. But now that I recognize this, I am changed. And this scenario will never happen to me again!!!

So, Goodbye SNAKES!!! And see ya later POISON. Consider yourself sucked!-LOL